Sunday, February 23, 2014

Sick - not home sick

This week we didn't get much done. I got sick, and our leaders strongly encouraged us to stay home, even if it wasn't that bad. It made sense, it's better to take a day or two off to get back to 100% than work constantly at 60% and not get better. But being busy every minute of every day then suddenly slamming on your brakes to a halt is hard. It made our house feel like a prison. I spent all the time I could studying Korean and the scriptures and making cards for our members when we visit them, but there's only so much you can do. But I'm doing better now, so the work picked up on Saturday when we met with LNG. He's a new guy we're teaching and it was only the second time we met him, but he was nice, and loved the Book of Mormon. He thought it was so interesting that he could not only learn about the work of God in the Americas, but the history as well. We explained that it's exactly like the bible, in the sense that it was written by prophets, as a record of history, as well as a spiritual history and record of God's words. We're excited to meet with him again this next week.
The 2018 Winter Olympics will be held in PyeongChang South Korea (close to where Jordan is serving). 
We will definitely have to go for the Olympics there. That would be really fun.
That's about it for this letter. It's short, but this week feels like it flew by so fast. Hopefully next week I'll have an exciting story to tell you all. Until then, 안녕하세요!
 
Elder Franchina

Sunday, February 16, 2014

Service

There's a guy at church that always has his phone on a pole, mounted, to record sacrament. I asked him why, and he said there's an elderly lady in the ward that can't come, so they stream sacrament to her live, every Sunday. The high priests and young men go over every week to give her the sacrament, but once a month, the missionaries accompany. This week, they asked us. We went with the stake patriarch. She's no more than 60 or 65, and seems pretty lively, but has a hole in her throat, making it impossible to speak. All that she can do is mouth consonants. But we sat down, introduced ourselves, and she opened the organ she had in her home and began the meeting with a hymn. We had our own miniature sacrament meeting there, not just the blessing of the sacrament. It brought a wonderful spirit. Her home is sacred ground. Even though she can't leave her home, she spends all of her time studying the scriptures and practicing hymns to play for us, and enriching her home with the spirit and love of Christ. What a blessing it was to us to see someone with such great faith. It really helped me see what was really important. When old age comes with illness, and the new technologies of youth and fleeting friendships fade, here is this beloved sister, still clinging to the Lord. Despite her inability to do many things that would otherwise make the rest of us give up and wait for death, she spends her time learning and continuing to strengthen her faith and relationship with God. In this sister's eyes, I saw what really mattered. I saw what was truly important. I could see eternal truths. 
 
Just a short visit in her home left a huge impact on me, and she didn't even use words. I see her same example in people like my grandparents and parents, that truly know what's important, and are willing to sacrifice everything else for that. I only hope to be close to that stage when I reach that time in life.
 
Take a minute to think about or make a list of what's important in your life, and what takes the most time or priority in your life. Make sure that the things that are most important are taking up the most time. Those eternal things: families, your relationship with God, your faith, your knowledge, and your memories. Take care not to let those things that will fade away take the place of those things that truly last.
 
Elder Franchina

Sunday, February 9, 2014

Namdaemun (Seoul Gate)

This week we didn't see too much progress in many of our investigators, we think HJ dropped us, and we can't meet with MRC until Wednesday, but we were able to make huge progress with some other investigators. KYJ was the guy we met our first night here, and went on vacation for a month. We called to meet him again, and he said he would be busy, but one night, after teaching NDY and his wife CLN, he called and said he wanted to meet. We met in a cafe and taught the gospel of Jesus Christ. He mentioned how he liked the plan of salvation, and how the hierarchy in heaven (celestial, terrestrial, etc) is something that he believes in, and he thinks it's strange how other churches don't believe in it. We had great conversations about faith and the benefit it has on man, and we invited him to be baptized. He said, 'Yeah, I've been thinking recently that I need to be baptized. Why don't they focus on that more in other churches? It's so important.' We set a date for March 2, and after that he said, 'I told my wife I'm talking to 2 american missionaries about faith and church, and she said she wants to listen too.' So he will introduce us to his wife soon! He said that he likes church for the faith and gospel aspect, but his wife likes church more for the community and friendship. She went to another church recently, and she might feel guilty about going to another church, but she'll probably come. We're so excited about this family.
 
NDY and CLN are doing well. We ate dinner at their house and finished the first lesson. CLN has her own view of God and he doesn't really have a shape or form, just a presence. We talked about making that personal relationship with God through prayer and the benefits it has for us, and also about reading the Book of Mormon and the Bible to know who God and Christ are better. The lesson was really spiritual and powerful, but when we invited them to pray, NDY straight out said no, and CLN politely declined, because it's been too long since she's prayed out loud. We invited them to church on the base, but they didn't come. I do think that lesson left a good impression on them, and they said that after they come back from vacation, they'll make time for us to come over again.
 
We weren't able to meet with Dr. HNG, and his granddaughter didn't come to church or anything, but we're still trying to contact him frequently.

We met a new old guy, Mr. AND, and he's nice, but all he does is talk about the war and way back when. He's over 70 years old and only speaks English with us, but he's nice and goes to church. When we brought up church, he just said, 'every generation thinks differently, so that's why there are so many churches' and that was about it. If we can meet him again soon we'll talk more about that.
 
We might not be making much progress with some investigators, but we've seen miracles with others. I know this is the Lord's work. I've seen and experienced a joy that you can't find in any other place in the world.
 
Just remember that you don't need to take my word on it, you can, and we encourage you to find out for yourself. That's the beauty of this message. You don't need to trust us, trust god. We put the future of this church in God's hands, and trust him to tell you if it's true or not. That's the reason this church is one of the fastest growing churches in the world.
 
Elder Franchina

Sunday, February 2, 2014

SeBeh



What a great week.

We met a guy Monday night, MJG, and gave him a Book of Mormon, then on Wednesday we met him again. He has read the bible quite often and was interested in the Book of Mormon. He kind of has the mindset of 'what can I pull from this religion to help me?, so when he came to church on Sunday we finished the first lesson and expanded on modern prophets by teaching the word of wisdom. He liked it, but didn't want to commit yet. He wants to read more though, so we're happy about that. He seems to be more of an independent, nondenominational christian, but he seems to have an interest in the Book of Mormon. The only thing is, he went out of town after our lesson for two months for work. But, we were able to meet with him twice, and while he's gone, he wants us to keep in contact, refer scriptures to him via text, and he wants to come to church when he comes back. It was great to have a member in our lesson too, he offered so much help and a great perspective that we as missionaries and members since childhood, can't offer. Sometimes it can be really hard to get members in our lessons because we live so far out of our own area, or the members are busy, but they are so valuable in our lessons.

We plan on meeting with NDY and his wife CLN this Thursday, we're really excited about them. They're really nice, and we have a feeling like they have genuine interest about the Book of Mormon.
Our biggest progress was with Dr. HNG. He invited us to a 설날 (New Year's Day) meal with his daughter's family, and he wanted to introduces his grand kids to us. He has 3 granddaughters around our age, and one is living around our area. From the moment he walked in to the moment we left he went on and on about how nice we are, how we're gentleman because we don't smoke, drink, etc. It seemed at first like he was trying to introduce us as potential husbands, but after a sec we realized that he was trying to encourage her to go to our church.  We shared our thanks and how we're grateful for families, which can receive so many blessings through this message.  It was just nice to sit down and see how much our investigator trusts and respects us. Next time we meet we'll really focus on HIM getting baptized too. It's funny how he really wants them to be baptized, but he's not jumping in the boat right away. But we see a lot of potential with him.

In this current Liahona there's a talk by Richard G Scott and he talks about ten guidelines for life, and one of them was to make a list of principles to guide our lives in every aspect, so I decided to start that list. I only have a few principles down, but I'm trying to think of the fundamental doctrines and principles that govern the actions, not just list the actions that I want to do. I'm also finding a few scriptures to back them up. It's really helped me find direction to my personal study, and not only do I read with purpose, but I also have some silent moments to sit and think about what I really want, and plan for my future life, including family. It's peaceful and exciting when I think of another principle that I can see helping me and my future family. Your mission is a good time to think about your standards and character, and set a standard that will last your lifetime. The things we learn and the goals we set on our mission won't just bless us for these two years, but they teach us valuable lessons and principles that we can carry with us throughout our whole lives.
As we focused on the Book of Mormon this month, we were able to see huge miracles. Sometimes we'd go a few weeks without giving out a book, but in just 31 days we were able to give out over 130 books. I don't say this to boast, but to say how much I've learned about setting worthy goals, and asking for the lord's help daily to accomplish them. Whatever goals we set that are in line with God's will, He will provide a way to accomplish it.
I've also began to meet many more Japanese people, it's weird. A lot of old people that were here when Japan was occupying Korea will use Japanese words here and there, for things like pants and desk, but I haven't been able to pick up much. But I'm running into so many Japanese people that I'm starting to carry around Japanese pamphlets and or a Japanese book of Mormon. I can't read or speak Japanese, but I'll learn just enough to say hello and offer them a book^^

This week we were able to go through the war museum again and see more of it, and for the new year, our investigator invited us over to his daughter's house (this guy is 84 years old). Every new years they do SeBeh, which is where you bow to your parents and grandparents, and wish them the blessings of a new year, and for luck, they'll give you money. Sometimes $10, sometimes $200. But we were able to experience that, and we SeBeh'd to our investigator, and he gave us a dollar. We didn't do it for the money, but he said the ceremony wouldn't be complete if we didn't get lucky money ㅋㅋ



Also, on two separate days in two separate places, I saw a guy riding a bike with a cat on his shoulder. So the second time I saw him I stopped him and took a picture. He's nice, and when I asked why, he said, 'just 'cuz.' It's just for fun ㅋㅋ






I love you all and hope you had a wonderful New Year! (If you go by the lunar calendar)
Elder Franchina